

Kali Bell
Jul 25, 20162 min read
Navigating losses and gains
Tino is lying down beside me as I start my tapping/counselling session and I feel a pang of pain and loss. Oscar didn’t get to do this...


Kali Bell
May 21, 20162 min read
How much do you say?
How much do you say to people when they ask you: How are you? Or how much do you divulge when you’re explaining why you won’t be…going to...


Kali Bell
May 14, 20164 min read
I know you – a letter from me…
Dear Me. I feel all that sadness. I feel the tears and I know where they’re from. You see I know you better than anyone else in this...


Kali Bell
May 9, 20164 min read
Navigating Relationships through Health Hiccups
Dear Harlan Here we are, 8 years on, navigating relationships 🙂 We had known each other for 9 months. We had been dating for 6 – you in...


Kali Bell
May 8, 20162 min read
Please tell me…
Today, just hold me. Gently take my head and rest it on your soft warm chest. Let me hear your heart beat and know that I’m home. Let me...


Kali Bell
May 6, 20164 min read
The Desperation to be ‘Fixed’!
The fuel of desperation Desperation was my driving force, my momentum for the first 2 ½ years on this journey with a fistula. Every...